The man called husband

hello dear.. i am 100% confident that each one of you must be wondering with whom you will get married with in the future right? me too! but i am very lucky because God already gave me the answer and much much thankful to have him in my life and literally i always wonder how can i live without him in my life=)
Thank you dear because be a great husband to me!

I married with a man who was studied at the same university with me and working in the same field as well.. both of us love numbers.. hmm i guess so.. since everyday we were talking about numbers and to be specific numbers printed on the paper called money haha..

we also working at the same area in shah alam.. our office are very close.. like 3 minute walking perhaps? every morning we will go to work together , lunch together and go back together..
i have to wake up early so that my husband can arrive at his office sharp at nine.. well you know me- the girl who is really hard to wake up early in the morning and in fact my working hours are more flexible comparing with my husband.. but with him.. i be a very good employee coming sharp at nine an sometimes 5-10 minute earlier weeeeee! maybe my boss can increase my KPI's score for that heeee

have you ever wonder what happened if you married with the man who have same working field as you? heee let me give the list of scene that might occur.. please note that in my situation we are in the same accounting field..


scene no 1:

me: tgh gosok baju- bie awak punya company buat this that this that kan?
husband: tgh tgk tv- aah..
me: bape ek margin korang amik
husband: ikutlah tgk cost ape semua
me: cost of sales tinggi ker? boleh untung banyak ker ek
husband: kite punya cost kite campur sekali bla bla bla and bla


scene no 2:
kat kedai makan:

me: alamak kite tak buat lg la surat this that and that
husband: yeke..
me: awak ada copy tak?
husband: ada.. nnt kite email kat awak ek
me: thank you

scene no 3:

dekat shopping mall

me: awak agak kan berapa agaknya dia mark up ek untuk barang2 nih
husband: aah kan.. tapi tak tahulah bape
me: boleh untung ker?
husband: boleh la kot.. kalo tak camne diorg leh jual

scene no 4:

gaji masuk

husband: ok jom kite list down kan duit nih nak g mana mana and mana
me: ok bulan nih nak beli tuh nih tuh nih
husband: aik mana pg ek baki sekian sekian dan sekian
me: eh awak tau kan skrg kene naikan kwsp 13 percent
husband: bile ek start?....

scene 5:
husband: eh camne ek kite nak naikkan profit kat sini situ sini.. ada idea tak?
me: awak buat la camni.. tambahkan kat sini kurang kan kat situ
husband: kalo kite wat camni nak besarkan scale leh tak
me: boleh jugak


and the rest scene also about numbers and untung rugi haha! That is what happened when both of you working in the same field. but i just love it.. we can share many things to help each other since everyday are the learning phase for everyone=)

peace!

sudah lama tak update

ye... sudah sangat lama tak update.. perut ku makin besar.. tulang pon dah start sakit2.. tapi.. tulang ker yang sakit ek? bulan nih and bulan lepas adalah bulan yang sangat la busy.. and stress.. tidur tak cukup and penggunaan otak sudah tahap yang hampir maksimum..

sekarang dah boleh bernafas lega.. Alhamdulillah.. apa khabar semua? peace! hehe saje nak memecah tahap serius yang sangat poyo..

Anyway... tadi duduk tgk2 checklist barang bby.. tak sabar nak tambah barang bby.. duit gaji dah masuk... weeeee!

ingat nak tulis senarai barang baby untuk kemudahan bersama.. tapi tibe2 rasa malas pulak.. apa progress ek? owh ye.. katil baby dah siap!!!! tinggal nak beli bedding set je.. colour tema colour hijau.. nanti update kat korang kay gambar.. i tau you all mesti punya nak tgk kan kan hehe

apa lg update ek? perut makin membesar.. pergi toilet makin kerap.. tidur semakin tidak lena.. belakang badan semakin sakit.. ingat minggu depan nak mintak cuti lah sehari settle and confirmkan hospital mana nak bersalin.. 1st choice and 2nd choice antara PPUM atau Hospital sungai buloh setalah mengambil kira segala aspek.. nnt lepas cuti baru tau yang mana jadi 1st choice.. 3rd choice maybe umra atau smc atau sekarang KPJ Selangor..

mode: nak hilangkan penat .. and tak sabar nak jumpa baby!!! huhu

friday blues~

today i feel so tired.. i dont know why and where my energy goes.. my mum and aunts also told me that i always look tired when pregnant.. my mum keep reminding me to take vitamin c and protein.. but trust me.. i did! heee

anyway i just spend my whole day reading about labor and delivery experienced. so many stories and indeed it makes me nervous and seriously it always ended up with me burst into tears. rasa syahdu je baca experienced orang beranak nih.. owh my.. now i understand more less what all mums went through. I will share with you guys about my labor and delivery experience nanti kay.. do pray for me yeah .. your doa and pray is the greatest gift of all dear..

yes.. untuk pertama kali mengandung nih.. i do have a lots of questions in my mind.. about breastfeed, laboring process, antenatal class, suggested brand for all the babies item, what is the air selusuh and many2 more.. seriously you have to read a lot of articles about all this thing and ask other people around you. it is totally new and you will only learn it when you walk through this next phase of life. thats why people said experienced it the most valuable knowledge ever.

okay i have to take a deep breath.. i start to feel nervous.. and at the same time i feel so sentimental .. im so lucky to have the best family around me.. and i also feel sangat bahagia and bersyukur dengan my hubby.. you are the best and the greatest sayang..
helping me doing my daily chores, never complaint about my appearance and looks even though i know i am so close to get tittle macam minah indon huhu and taking care of me day night.. Alhamdulillah..

Anyway.. have you watch Ombak Rindu? big compliment to them.. i hardly watch malay movie in cinema because afraid it will disappoint me.. but this movie for me isn't like a typical malay movie. and i sangat impress dengan kemajuan filem malaysia sekarang..great!

p/s: i love this song! enjoy guys~

kisah mereka lagi dan lagi...

suatu hari ketika baru selesai bergotong royong untuk majlis perkhawinan Pn Z, dalam perjalanan balik:

isteri: bie.. alamak kite tertinggal handbeg la..
suami: nak pusing balik ker?
isteri: takpela.. karang mintak tolong Pn Z bawakkan..

isteri cuba menghubungi Puan Z.

Isteri: Z nanti jgn lupa bawak kan handbeg ek datang dewan tertinggal la..
Puan Z: Ok..

Dewan..

Puan Z: alamak lupa nak bawak handbeg..
Isteri: takpela besok amik kat rumah..

ketika berada di rumah Puan Z

Isteri: Z kay la ek.. nak balik.. karang jumpa.. tak sabar! hehehe
Puan Z: jgn lupa amik hand beg tau
Isteri: hehee ok.. tak lupa..

isteri pon amik handbeg...

bertolak balik ker rumah bersama suami..


sampai di rumah..

isteri: eh bie.. mana henset kite ek...
suami: cuba call

call handphone....

Suami Puan Z: hello... ye puan E...adoi.. dah amik handbeg tinggal henset pulak huhu.. dah agak dah!

isteri: heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee.. nnt tolong passkan kat sape2 ek


sekian~

once upon a time

owh my... once upon a time.. when i still at my ideal weight and so do hubby hehe hanging around with my lovely cousins. i miss them! owh cousins.. lets hang around or perhaps we need a holiday trip!

things get really busy at the moment.. need to finalize the audit account, just finished with grand launching for our flagship cafe Coffee Planet!!! and also got a pile of paper on my table to be sorted out!










time flies so fast.. i am now 5 month pregnant. baby start kicking and rocking.. owh sometimes i just cant wait till the baby pops out! last weekend i went to pureen warehouse clearance with my mom...please don't ask how much i spend that day haha .. things just get crazy with everything offered at really good price.. so much things to update.. but time doesn't allow me to write it now. no worries will find sometime to do that. but tell you.. i almost faint at the warehouse clearance sale. 1st time ever.. literally! maybe because of the weather or overcrowd. Alhamdulillah nothing happened =)

2011 almost reach to the end and welcome 2012!! hopefully everything will run smoothly and goes better.. better.. and better.. weeeee!

Money Matters $$$

hye all~ ok.. ini kes serious.. mari kita bersama2 renung2kan..


hehe chewah bikin gempak sungguh.. actualy would like to share with you something beyond what eyes can see.. kalau cerita pasal duit mmg tak akan habis.. duit banyak duit tak cukup nak tambah duit and lain2 lagi. but entry kali nih nak cerita pasal duit supaya you all sedia untuk buat persiapan.. mental fizikal zahir dan juga batin=)

1.Perkhawinan

yups.. perkhawinan memakan belanja yang sangat tinggi.. teringat zaman belajar literature english dulu pasal budget khawin.. cant remember apa tajuk nya tapi mmg best. i think everyone familiar with that story ryte? ok antara faktor2 yang you all kena consider bila pilih tarikh khawin nih adalah.. timing.. that is the biggest factor for me.. siapa yang rancang untuk berkhawin awal.. kena pastikan ada duit pocket tetap.. cara bgaimana nak dapat source itu terpulang kepada individu masing2.. ada setgh still tgh study but parents willingly nak tanggung.. macam saya.. baru kerja so mmg baru nak establish.. siapa yang pilih date2 yang nak dekat raya nih bersedia hehehe

1- korang kene simpan duit jugak untuk persiapan raya and bagi duit raya
2-duit untuk majlis bertandang kalau kahwin dengan org jauh
3- duit selepas pergi honeymoon
4-duit untuk awal2 selepas kahwin- sebab kalau dah kahwin nih malu la kan nak mintak parents lg
5-duit untuk makan2 bersama rakan2 yang ingin lepak2 bersama bila dah khawin
6- duit ingin berjalan2 bersama suami.. yela bile dah khawin mesti rasa mcm dunia nih kite yang punya.. so lg rajin la nak dating sana sini hehehe
7-duit untuk balik kampung and travel jauh pon kene amik kire
8- duit beli barang groceries and bahan basah! takkan nak makan kat luar je kan hehehe ok i buat calculation harga average barang2 basah nih 4 ringgit so you all kali la dgn berapa item yang korang beli kalau sekali pergi.. biasalah kalau dah masuk hyper2 supermarket nih secara automatiknya korang akan jadi hyper huhu


ok tup tap Allah kurniakan rezeki.. mengandung cepat..Alhamdulillah! itu adalah berita paling gembira.. tapi persiapan yang perlu korang lakukan adalah.. nih cerita kalo baru khawin la kan...


1- kumpul duit untuk beranak.. tetapi biasanya bulan pertama hingga ke empat.. masing2 masih dalam tempoh wahh happynya akan dapat baby hehe and also masih dalam tempoh.. berjaga2 sebab 1st pregnancy sangat fragile and doktor pon akan cakap jgn mengharap sngt.. tetapi pejam celik tau2 dah bulan.. alamak2 lg 4 bulan nak kumpul duit untuk beranak.. hospital gov or swasta.. kena sediakan jugak duit for any possible risk that might occur..

2- beli barang2 baby and peralatan baby.. nih pon korang kene survey and budget sebab barang2 baby mahal tau.. memang la kadang2 kita fikir nak ikut budget tapi boasanya kalau anak pertama nih excited mesti terlebih. dok tengok sana sini last amik yang luar budget hehe nak yang terbaik katanya-p/s: nerves2 baju and barang bby tak beli lg huhuhu

3- duit medical check up bulan2 kalau pergi gov tak kene bayar tapi.. kalau nak scan semua biasa buat kat swasta.. so budget la bulan2 kay.. termasuklah supplement and susu untuk ibu=)

4- duit beli barang untuk ibu pon jugek! termasuk baju and seluar utk gantikan yang tak muat hehe


Lain- Lain:

1. termasukla duit untuk wedding present kawan2 korang
2. duit beli insurance
3. duit belanja makan
4. duit bagi adik beradik
5. duit kalau beli kereta and rumah ker termasuk deposit
6.duit shopping tidak dilupakan


dan seterusnya... hehehe itulah entry saya pada hari ini hahaha money matters! bukan nak takutkan... tapi nak korang bersedia.. tolong menolong sesama suami isteri adalah sangat digalakan ye..


ok nih random photo saya bersama suami semasa berdiam diri dari mengupdate blog... lihatlah saya yang baru huhu..

Esma talk to herself about....

Owh my! i just realized how immature i am at the age of 24 years old..

Thinking of what world has to offer for me beside of having all this routine job and grumping for things i created myself..

i feel so immature!


yes if you.. (refer to yourself ye Esma!) always blaming your purse for becoming so thin every time not even reach mid of month.. why not you feed your purse with something that only you can do it..

okay... but how? and errr... please define the word 'something' based on your above statement..

hello esma.. something means do something la.. think out of box plz..

but i always thought and think money is my main constraint to do 'something'..

hmm so why not you start from learning? learn from the environment and surrounding... they are the greatest teacher of all anyway.. try to learn from all the successful people in the world.. let them inspire you.. go get inspired and motivated first.. then..later you will see your way

owh i wish that easy..

that is soooo negative thought.. yes you never get that without Allah grant it.. but you have to remember this.. Firman Allah:

Allah tidak akan merubah nasib (seseorang atau) sesuatu kaum, sehingga kaum (atau orang itu)
berusaha (membuat komitmen) untuk mengubah nasibnya. (Ar-R'aad : 11)

InsyaAllah..

Okay.. by the way one more thing.. why not you learn as well how to groom yourself.. especially your messy character and appearance.. yes you are messy! boo you!


hehe.. okay.. i try! hubby help me ek! and also my friends out there need your favor to help me too ... lets be a better person!!!!!! there are so many people out there had reach what they aim for at the very young age..

we can do it too! it just a matter of time and patient... breath in and breath out!!!

By the way hehehe below is what i cooked yesterday for our dinner.. and not to forget to wish Happy Birthday to My lovely dad. Lets celebrate it today! semoga ayah sihat and Ya Allah kasihilah ibu bapaku seperti mana mereka mengasihi ku.. Amin




task for yourself: do a to do list for a brand new esma! =) assignment due date: TBC- to be confirm~

owh maybe you can also write in your journal about what you do everyday.. so you can Muhasabah yourself from it.. lets try!